Nobody Argues Their Way Out
Leaving doesn’t require a confession, and you get to keep the weights. Here’s what actually has to change, and what it costs you.
MasculinityA collection of 7 posts
You Can’t Lose This Argument
The reason it kept checking out isn’t that it’s true. It’s that nothing you could have found would have counted against it.
Lonely for the Wrong Reason
The manosphere is closer to right about the feeling than its critics admit, and much further from right about the cause than its followers ever check.
The Alpha Male Myth
The ‘alpha male’ is borrowed from a debunked wolf study its own author disowned — and it gets the cause of attraction backwards. Here’s why having genuine passions, not performing dominance, is what actually works.
What Feminism Actually Asks of Me
The thing nobody tells you about becoming a feminist as a man is that the day-to-day reality…
Who I Am, Part Two: Why I’m a Feminist, and Why You Probably Should Be Too
There’s a particular kind of man who will tell you, with some pride, that he is not…
Who I Am, Part One: Straight, White, Male
I’ve been thinking lately about how many people seem to hold their beliefs the way you’d hold…